Interesting. What hardware are you running ESXi 5.1 on? What is the hardware for this NIC? Hopefully you verified it is supported under ESXi 5.1: http://www.vmware.com/resources/compatibility/search.php
Also, run these commands to list your installed VIBs and get info on the NIC driver being used. This may help me determine if you're using an unsupported/outdated driver:
Check info on NICs and associated driver:
# esxcli network nic list
Example from one of our HP ProLiant servers, showing be2net driver being used. I've edited output for simplicity:
Command to list VIBs installed. Hopefully you're using a VMwareCertified driver that's compatible with your hardware + ESXi 5.1:
# esxcli software vib list
Example from one of our HP ProLiant servers, using a razor-thin custom ESXi 5.1 image:
~ # esxcli software vib list
Name Version Vendor Acceptance Level Install Date
----------------------------- ---------------------------------- --------------- ---------------- ------------
char-hpcru 5.0.3.09-1OEM.500.0.0.434156 Hewlett-Packard PartnerSupported -
hp-smx-provider 500.03.01.10.2-434156 Hewlett-Packard VMwareAccepted -
hpacucli 9.20-9.0 Hewlett-Packard PartnerSupported -
hpbootcfg 01-01.02 Hewlett-Packard PartnerSupported -
ehci-ehci-hcd 1.0-3vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
esx-base 5.1.0-0.9.914609 VMware VMwareCertified -
esx-dvfilter-generic-fastpath 5.1.0-0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
esx-xlibs 5.1.0-0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
ipmi-ipmi-devintf 39.1-4vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
ipmi-ipmi-msghandler 39.1-4vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
ipmi-ipmi-si-drv 39.1-4vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
misc-cnic-register 1.1-1vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
misc-drivers 5.1.0-0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
net-be2net 4.1.255.11-1vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
net-bnx2 2.0.15g.v50.11-7vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
net-nx-nic 4.0.558-3vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
scsi-hpsa 5.0.0-21vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
scsi-lpfc820 8.2.3.1-127vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
uhci-usb-uhci 1.0-3vmw.510.0.0.799733 VMware VMwareCertified -
vmware-fdm 5.1.0-947673 VMware VMwareCertified -
hpnmi 2.0.11-434156 hp PartnerSupported -